I'm Just Saying! (Dumb Young Mothers) A MUST READ

There is nothing wrong with being young.  There is something wrong when you are young with an serious attitude; and NO ONE can tell you any thing, even when you are dead wrong.  So I am dedicating this segment of I'm Just Saying to those retards! What?  I'm Just Saying!!!!

To the young mother with a sick baby who brings the child outside in the cold with NO coat, NOTHING to cover the baby up with and NOTHING on their head......you need to be stuffed in a freezer without those same items that the baby did not have on.  Maybe you will know how it feels to freeze and be sick throwing up all over yourself.  That right there?!........ makes me wanna lock you in a one and throw away the key!  I'm Just Saying!!!  

If you are a father with no job, no car, living with someone else, how you dare you open your mouth and say people need to mind their business.......YOU DON'T HAVE ANY BUSINESS TO SPEAK OF!  You can't even buy a vowel so stop talking.  No one is listening....not even your parents!  I'm Just Saying!

Alright I understand you trying to make money with your first job but sistah girl, STOP SMACKING ALL IN THE MIC WHEN TAKING MY ORDER FO I SMACK WHAT CHA SMACKING ON DOWN YOUR STOMACH AND MAKE IT COME OUT YOUR REAR!!!!  I'M JUST SAYING!  Get some training on how to be a lady!!

If you sent your child to visit family or friends and the child gets sick and you act like that's an inconvenience to you; all the mothers, grandmothers, aunties and women all over the world need to line up and whoop your tail until you understand that when you gave birth, your rights to you have vanished!  Get over yourself....as a facebook friend of mine say......that is called some straight trifling ghettoish, let me kick her butt foolishness there!   I'm Just Saying!

If you telling someone how to spend their money on your child who is their grandchild, SMACK YOURSELF before they do.  You are out of line for even thinking you have ANY power or control like that!  Betta leave that "oh wee" alone for that "oh wee" became a ouch!  I'm Just Saying!

If you think that you can keep your child from their other family, think again!  If the other parent get rights (which they should), they WILL get visitation dumm dumm!  Stop barking because your bite is no better than the toothless baby you birthed.  I'm Just Saying!

If the father's mother threw you a baby shower and NOT ONE of your family or friends showed up, that is a sign you have issues!!!  Maybe the person giving the shower should have taken notes!!!  (SO NOTED!!!)  I'm Just Saying!

So here's a tip:
Maybe if you get a clue on how to communicate or listen you may become a good mother. Mothers before you who have raised at least one child can be a lot of help.  If you're that grown and know it all stop asking for things that you should already be doing.  I'm Just Saying!  

This is your girl Forealdoh wishing you a bless weekend!

Disclaimer:

I'm Just Saying! is not intended to hurt or bash anyone.  If you are offended please know that this isn't the blog for you and to keep it moving.  If you offended, check yourself, that's the truth in your heart trying to kick your butt because you fall into one of the "I'm Just Saying topic above.  Don't hate the writer........hate the reader.  I'm Just Saying!

Sincerely,

Making Excuses is No Excuse!

When it comes to sexuality people are more open to the thought of being gay verses being straight.  What one person does is not my concern but when you say I am hating or bashing gays because I  AM A Soldier for God's Kingdom, I take a stand.

Here's question that I want to put out there......

Why is it when we ask someone about God and his bible, people respond with, "How do you know it was God?"  "MAN wrote the bible."  We are quick to dismiss the Word of God but believe MAN on their word.  Something is wrong with this picture.  What can "man" do for me that God can't do?  God say ALL power is in His hand.  What power does man hold?  If God isn't saying that homosexuality is a sin, just like murdering, lying, stealing there is no respect of person, why are we making excuses for the sin?

Maura Kelly wrote, "Although I can be a little on the prudish side, I try to be open about other people's sexuality, and I've tried in the past — and will continue to try — to keep an open mind about trying new things. Because, as I've realized, you never know what the hell you're going to like until you try it" 

UMMM.........NO.............Sorry Maura, trying something that will get me into hell is not worth the effort.  Will you try murder to see if you like it?

Stop making excuses for the sin you live in.  Plain and simple people.  Many will be deceive by the actions of others because society tells us, "its normal".  That is why we need to be in the Word of God and living for Him.  Hell is not the place for you if you don't do heat, bugs, bad smells, being torture and having no peace.  

If you don't believe in hell or God you will surely find out.  All knees will bow before God gay, straight, bi, murderers, unbelievers, believers, adulterers, ALL!  Are you ready to stand before God with your excuses on what you done?

Sincerely,

I'm Just Saying! (Freedom of Speech)

I was watching the Today show when the segment of Maria Clair blog and writer Maura Kelly talked about "people being fat."  I was reading the online article she wrote and I quote, "So anyway, yes, I think I'd be grossed out if I had to watch two characters with rolls and rolls of fat kissing each other ... because I'd be grossed out if I had to watch them doing anything. To be brutally honest, even in real life, I find it aesthetically displeasing to watch a very, very fat person simply walk across a room — just like I'd find it distressing if I saw a very drunk person stumbling across a bar or a heroine addict slumping in a chair." unquote.  

Here is my opinion: 

She has a right to say how she feels.  Would have I written something like that.....I don't know!  I can say this I don't think the people reading her article saw the bottom the line of her story.  She isn't saying something that most of  have not thought about.  She just put hers out there for the world to see.  I personally don't watch the Mike & Molly not because of weight but because it doesn't interest me.  Americans have issues with being skinny!  Let's face it.  As you age, your body change so either you will work at it or you won't.  Who are we to criticize a person for their decision to be skinny or fat?  Who are we to beat up on someone for their opinion?

One of our rights is "Freedom of Speech".  One should be able to share their thoughts without a media back lash, regardless.  What amazes me is the television and radio media.....they are like flesh eating bacterias on celebrities.  They are allowed to invade their privacy, be in their business and most important report on their children as well over exaggerate a story.  Why aren't we mad about that?  Why do we allow them to degrade others and allow this writer, who is no different than other media outlet, to be racked over the coals?  It isn't fair!  Some of the comments on her blog were outrageous.  

As a "black woman" my skin was born with a layer of thickness.  As much as my culture suffered at the hands of other human beings, the media can't stand the thought of discussing it.  Let alone reporting on it!  The reason why people don't get anger with the media for reporting on people like, less say Charlie Sheen, is because they are keeping nosy people, like those who attack Maura's article, in the loop.  Why should this writer be fired?  Until we as a whole stop allowing others to dictate what is "real", what is "normal" and what "we" should say and feel I say BACK OFF!  I'm Just Saying!

Sincerely,

Breaking the Curse....

An atheist was taking a walk through the woods "What majestic trees! What powerful rivers! What beautiful animals!" he said to himself. As he continued walking alongside the river he heard a rustling in the bushes. Turning to look, he saw a 7 foot grizzly charging towards him.

He ran as fast as he could up the path. Looking over his shoulder he saw that the bear was closing in on him. His heart was pumping frantically and he tried to run even faster.

He tripped and fell on the ground. He rolled over to pick himself up but saw the bear raising his paw to take a swipe at him. At that instant the atheist cried out: "Oh my God..."

Time stopped.

The bear froze.

The forest was silent.

It was then that a bright light shone down upon the man and a voice came out of the sky saying: "You deny my existence for all of these years, teach others I don't exist, and even credit creation to a cosmic accident. Do you expect me to help you out of this predicament? Am I to count you as a believer?"

The atheist looked directly into the light, "It would be hypocritical of me to suddenly ask you to treat me as a Christian now, but perhaps, could you make the bear a Christian?"

"Very well," said the voice.

The light went out.

And the sounds of the forest resumed.

Then the bear lowered his paw, bowed his head and spoke: "Lord, bless this food which I am about to receive and for which I am truly thankful. Amen." 

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That was sent to me in an e-mail and I thought, "What a way to make a point!"  We deny the very things that is for our good and accept those that are not.  We are the best of God and how do we thank him....by rejecting him?  That shouldn't be acceptable.  He sends people and gives many warnings to us when he's trying to get our attention.  We just turn away until we are in need.  Be careful what you ask of God because it may be the opposite of what you thought the outcome would be.  Anything that is not of God is a curse upon your life.  Sin is a curse.  Sin had no place with God.  What is a curse?  A curse (also called execration) is any expressed wish that some form of adversity or unhappiness that will befall another person or persons. Anger is a curse, a lying spirit is a curse, sexual immortality is a curse.  If its not of God its a curse.  Sin is a curse, if it wasn't God wouldn't have told Adam and Eve in Genesis 3:17  

To Adam he said, "Because you listened to your wife and ate from the tree about which I commanded you, 'You must not eat of it,'

       "Cursed is the ground because of you;
       through painful toil you will eat of it
       all the days of your life.

The Word of God says that a curse without a cause can not settle on a righteous person.  Sin opens the door (primarily disobedience) for a curse to settle on a person.  No matter the sin, and no matter the type of curse, we need to ask the Lord to take it and break it from us.  Then we are appropriating and applying what Jesus did for us by going to the cross and becoming a curse for us. Ask God to come into your life and remove the curse that is holding you back.  Are you ready to break the curse and allow God into your life?

Heavenly Father I come to You no in the Name of of my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.  Holy Spirit I ask You to quicken me and lead me in prayers.  Lord, I believe that on the cross You took upon Yourself every curse that could and would over come against me.  I as that You destroy every curse that is on me a this time, on my children, my grandchildren and those closest to me at this time.  I ask You to destroy those curses now in the Name of Jesus according to John 14:14.  To God be the Glory. Amen! 

Sincerely,

I'm Just Saying! (Money)

Why are you crying "broke" but just brought you a pair of $200 shoes and your child support payment is 2 month behind?  

Why are you on some quick rich scheme trying to sell no good used mp3 players will not make you rich.  Will get you beat up but will not make you rich.

You driving a 1998 cutlass with spinning wheels and a nice sound system, draped in "Gold 4 Ya Mouf" jewelry but can't read and write nor can you talk. 

You can go to the club and party hardy spending big bucks on friends but can't put a dollar in the offering plate at church.

You rather spend money on clothes than to take your trifling behind to Laundromat to wash your clothes.

You will purchase your tobacco products instead of purchasing life insurance.

You spend your paycheck two weeks before you receive it because you blew your last pay check trying to impress your new "boo".

You will take money from your kids piggy bank for gas because you gave your money to that no good man you want to keep around.

You spent $5000 on a gold grill for your ride but won't spend $100 on your kids.

Wake up people!!!  We need to start making better decisions with our money!  Look nice, ride nice and buy things at a moderate rate.  If you don't have a job, don't blow your money.  If you don't have skills to better budget your money, get some!  If you have a mate who is draining you dry, lose them!  You can do bad all by yourself.  If you robbing Peter to pay Paul you are in a crisis!  Make a choice to get your financial matter in order.  Like the saying goes, "Make money, don't let the money make you!"  I'm Just Saying!

I'm Just Saying Disclaimer:  This is the opinion of the writer.  The topics are not designed to hurt, bring pain but to deliver another way of thinking that is designed to help build a person up.  Keep in my mind that I write what I experience from my culture!  If you find that my writing offend you, this isn't the blog for you.  Keep it moving!  I'm Just Saying!  
 

Sincerely,

I'm Just Saying! (Dumb Parents)

Here is a topic that burns me up.......dumb parents!!!!  There is a difference between a mistake and dumb parent who is dumb. 
  
For example:

1.  Sending your kids to school is not a time for you to go on vacation.  How you gon' drop them off and head to the airport to hit Vegas and be back by bed time.  What about when they get home from school.....who is going to be there for your elementary babies?  Trade in your airline ticket for a how not to be a dumb parent 101 book because you just dumb and trifling!  I'm Just Saying!

2.  You go to parent teacher conference not to check on your kids report but to fight another parent.  How ghetto is that?  You should be fighting to keep good teachers and staff in their jobs so your kid can have a future, have a good education.  I'm Just Saying!  Fight for a good cause!

3.  You FAITHFULLY go the hail and nail salon, why is your children looking like they belong on a commercial with Sally's "Feed the Children?"  I'm Just Saying!  You should be ashamed of yourself but of course you won't be because you think you fly.  N O T!!!!!

4.  How you going to spend your last on some man who lays around and do NOTHING?  The next week your electric is off and you send NeNe your baby child over to the neighbors with an extension cord asking, "Can we plug this cord in we need some lights?"  Kick that bum to curb and learn how to manage your money and STOP SENDING THEM BABIES TO THE NEIGHBORS!  I'm Just Saying!

5.  How is it your child can beat every video game played but can't play a matching card game because they don't know what the objects on the card is?  Seriously!  Unplug the game and sit down with a tutor so you BOTH can learn something.  Stop letting the TV raise your child!  I'm Just Saying!


6.  Why is your teenage child telling you what to do?  Show them how it feels to have no teeth!  I'm Just Saying!

7.  Why is your daughter dressing like she is working the corner?  I mean, really, did you forget her clothes size?  Is she working with you on a corner?  Well I just wanna know..........need a pimp?  I'm Just Saying!

8.  Stop sending your kids to church just so they can eat breakfast.  Get yo but out of bed, cook and go to church as a family.  Maybe God will be merciful on you.  I'm Just Saying!!!

9.  Please stop using the system as a method of getting by.  You the parent, GET A JOB and provide on your own.  Being on welfare and using the local food pantry as a way of living is not what it was designed to be!!!  I'm Just Saying!


So many parents are failing in raising our children.  Stop letting your children dictate the rules.  

If you can't control them, someone else will. 

If you can't or won't discipline someone else will 







and if you can't stand for someone to say anything to them then you betta keep them away from me, cause I ain't the one!  I'M JUST SAYING!!


I'm Just Saying Disclaimer:  This is the opinion of the writer.  The topics are not designed to hurt, bring pain but to deliver another way of thinking that is designed to help build a person up.  Keep in my mind that I write what I experience from my culture!  If you find that my writing offend you, this isn't the blog for you.  Keep it moving!  I'm Just Saying! 


 Sincerely,

Do The Work!

"Then David continued, 'Be strong and courageous and do the work. Don't be afraid or discouraged, for the Lord God, my God, is with you. He will not fail you or forsake you. He will see to it that all the work related to the temple of the Lord is finished correctly.'" I Chronicles 28:20 (NLT) 

I was going into my annual fast wanting God to do some powerful things in my life.  Little did I know, He was going to require a lot of work on my part.  Once I complete my role in His blessing for me, God promised to anoint the work at hand. I trust Him!  That is not the problem.  The problem is living up to his trust in me.  I love creating ideals and planning but I get so anxious for the outcome that I become discouraged.  Until one day a small voice said, "Do The Work!"  

I began praying and waiting on God for directions and how He wants me to do this project.  I trust the direction He has planned for me, (you have to trust Him for yourself).  So I began listening to the Holy Spirit and a small part of the project is this blog, my website.  Now I know what my purpose is at this moment.  I know what He wants for me.  I just have to do the work.

Perhaps you need a push to do what God has called you to do.  Maybe you know someone who is missing out on their calling.  Regardless, I am telling you to DO THE WORK!!!  No matter how hard the job at hand seems, do the work.  Sick and can't get well, do the work.  Having problems on the job, do the work.   Are you facing a challenge in your marriage? Do the work. Does your attitude need to be rebuilt? Do the work.  Worried about your children? Do the work.  Dealing with something that is too big to overcome? Do the work.  Are you struggling with debt and financial issues?  Do the work. Do you want to eat healthier, commit to regular exercise or lose weight? Do the work.  Is there a dream that God has planted in your heart that seems too big for you? Do the work.

Remember there is NOTHING too hard for God.  For his word says, "greater is he that is in you, than he that is in the world." 1 John 4:4  Which means when Christ is in you how can you go wrong?  You can't.  When you find yourself wanting to throw in the towel.  DON'T!  That strength and boost you need comes from God, when we call upon Him.

Job was a prime example of not giving up.  The devil challenged Job's integrity  proposing to God that Job serves him simply because God protects him. God removes Job's protection, allowing Satan to take his wealth, his children, and his physical health in order to tempt Job to curse God. Despite his difficult circumstances, he does not curse God, but rather curses the day of his birth. And although he protests his plight and pleads for an explanation, he stops short of accusing God of injustice.  Job's response to God shows none of the anger, passion, or piety he demonstrated in the rest of the story, even when God does not give Job the direct answer he has demanded for much of the book. Then Job is restored to an even better condition than his former wealthy state.  Remember the fight! Even when you don't have the answers you want, do the work!

So before you give up and call it quits, hold on, take a breath, pray, then do the work!

God Bless!

Sincerely,

Livng By Faith and Not By Sight!

We live by faith, not by sight (II Corinthians 5:7)

How many times we have lived our lives by what we see.  The eyes can be very deceiving.  We need to walk by faith when we make major life decisions.
But what about the little decisions in life?

• What about: when your husband or father raises his voice at you: How do you respond?
• Or when you tell your child to take out the trash and he says, “Oh, Dad, why do I have to?”
• Or a homeless man approaches you, and asks for help?

These aren’t major life decisions. These are day-by-day, hour-by-hour decisions. Life doesn’t seem to hinge on these decisions, as it does on marriage, or accepting a job. So can we walk by sight when making such decisions?

Every decision you make – every big decision, every small decision – is a step of faith or a step based on sight. All the decisions you make – from the decision about what job to take to how you respond to irritation, from the answer you give to a marriage proposal to how you respond to an email – all the decisions you make work together to determine who you are. All your decisions reflect your view of life, your view of God, your view of yourself.
Will you live a life of faith, walking by that faith, trusting God through Jesus Christ? Or will you live a life dependent on your own resources, figuring out how to work all things to your own advantage?
To our eyes, a life of faith seems a lot riskier. To walk by sight seems to make more sense. We see risks, and want to avoid them. We see pleasures, and want to pursue them.
But this chapter – and all of God’s Word – tells us the opposite. When we walk by faith, ultimately we will fulfill all our desires. When we walk by sight, ultimately we lose all we hoped to gain, all we worked for.
There are indeed dangers in the life of faith. There will be pain. But Proverbs 14:32 sums up the ultimate position:
32 The wicked is overthrown through his evildoing, but the righteous finds refuge in his death.
Do you see what this verse says? The wicked may appear powerful; they may appear successful. But in the end they are overthrown. The righteous may suffer – they may even die. But the righteous has refuge even in death. As Jesus said:
If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me. 35 For whoever would save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake and the gospel's will save it. 36 For what does it profit a man to gain the whole world and forfeit his life? Mark  8:34-36

• Are you trying to save you life – and thus are well on down the road to losing it?
• Are you out to gain all the world has to offer – and thus well on the way to forfeiting your life?

God offers you true life – in Jesus Christ. He will satisfy all your deepest desires – for He will give you true joy, true satisfaction, true security, true accomplishment, and true honor.
So see who God is – the source of all good gifts, all true joy. See how He rules the world – with perfect justice, magnifying His glory. And respond:

• Repent of your sinfulness. Turn from it. Hate it.
• Repent of your attempts to run your own life.
• Throw yourself on the mercy of God through Jesus Christ.
• Trust that His sacrifice on the cross paid the penalty for all your sinfulness.

Look to Him for your joy. And walk by faith, not by sight.



Sincerely,

Which Lane Are You In?

Have you ever drove your car while trying to do something else and you end up in the other lane?  You realize that any second you could have been in a accident.  Thank God he was protecting you.  The everyday course of life is just like that.  One minute we are walking with God and the next minute we are back in the flesh.  Ask yourself which lane are you in?

We stand before God every time we are in church promising to walk right, talk right and live right but end up jacked up again.  The very thing we think we're doing for God is actually not what it seems.  God knows we are not going to keep our promises that's why he tells us not to make them.  Yet we embarrass ourselves week after week trying to keep these broken promises.  Wouldn't that make us "double minded"?  One minute we love God and the next we love the world and all its earthy things?  I mean, I understand we fall down and we get up but shouldn't we know in our heart and mind that we are not really ready and is working on emotions only?  I agree we should try and try again.  I think the problem lies with one word.....temptation!  If we surround ourselves with positive things, positive people, and the word of God we can succeed.  We can win by not allowing the devil to constantly make us fall.  Once we walk down the church aisle to make it right it should be the last walk.  In case its not, keep walking until its right.  Just know that the lane you are in will either be a head on collision or it will take you to your final destination.  Which lane are you in?




Sincerely,

I'm Just Saying! (Being Blessed)

 
Everyone wants to be bless!  Let's face it!  I am always saying that I am Highly Favored and BLESSED!  I wan to give you insight on how to be blessed and know it!  You ready?  

You are blessed if you woke up this morning!  

 

You are blessed if you are not incarcerated.

If you are, that would make you dumb, crazy, stupid, or all the above especially if you put yourself there.  

Yet if you haven't succumbed to the true meaning of "saggin" you are blessed.  

You are blessed if you are still alive and surviving doing your time.  

Your favored and blessed if you are falsely imprisoned and still alive while being in your right mind!!  I'm Just Saying!!!

 

If you have a job to go!  BLESSED!

Both of your parents are alive....BLESSED!

Children are well and alive......Blessed!

 Not on welfare...Blessed!

In your right mind.....Blessed! 

Have a full head of gray hair and still able to do for yourself.....Blessed!  

Could be in your grave!  I'm Just Saying! 

Living in a drug infested enviorment with kids and not one time have you, your children been in directly involved or have had your home broken into.  Just blessed!!  Now MOVE out of there before it does happen.....God is giving you some time and it will run out.  I'm Just Saying!

Having someone to love you!  Blessed!

Being in love and knowing what it means to truly be loved after they have pass away makes you blessed!  That is a special kind of love.  One that is so rare and so precious!!  

If you have all your limbs and they function......blessed!

 

If you have one limb or more missing.....Blessed!  Your bless that you are still able to breath and use the very few limbs left.  I'm Just Saying!

Bottom line.....we all are blessed and yet we still find something to complain about!  

STOP complaining!   

Be thankful and grateful that things are not much worse.  As long as you are still breathing that is just another day to get your life right!  Be Blessed and know it!  I'M JUST SAYING!

I'm Just Saying! (Attitude)

Today's Segment is on Attitude.  Change starts from within.

If you can't get ahead in life its not the fault of others.  Its YOU!  Walking around like you were born with a silver spoon in your mouth.  The only thing in your mouth when you were born was the fluid from your mothers womb.  I'm Just Saying!

If you're wondering why NO ONE gets along with you its not because they are tripping but YOU ARE!  You get mad because someone was able to buy something you wished you could have.  Get a life and a job!  I'm Just Saying!

Speaking of a job...You go and land a job interview, make it to a second interview then a "maybe we call you".  They are not going to hire you!  They only sent you to those the other interviews so others can laugh at you.  You walked in there saggin, with your converse on and skinny jeans, funny glasses and your hair not comb.  They called everyone in the office and said, "YOU HAVE GOT TO SEE THIS JOKER!"  If they call you back its only for the ones who didn't get to see Bobo the clown as the unemployed clown.  I'm Just Saying!

You met this girl and think she is all that but she really isn't your type.  You think she is and will fight and argue with anyone who disagree.  AH YOU SO DUMB!!!!  When she shows her true side you want the help of those you have fell out with to provide advise.  Here's one.....if you can't listen and think with the right head DON'T DATE.  Otherwise, the laugh will be on you!  I'm Just Saying!

If you are 30 - 50 you can see bull crap a mile a minute.  25-29 you are just getting your toes wet and if you are 24 and below sit down, be quiet and listen!    You are not grown yet!  You live with someone other than yourself.  Your age makes you legal but your thought process makes you a child!  Seriously you can't even wipe your behind without the person you living with buying the toilet paper!  I'm Just Saying!!!

I'm Just Saying Disclaimer:  This is the opinion of the writer.  The topics are not designed to hurt, bring pain but to deliver another way of thinking that is designed to help build a person up.  Keep in my mind that I write what I experience from my culture!  If you find that my writing offend you, this isn't the blog for you.  Keep it moving!  I'm Just Saying! 

Transfer Your Membership!

Have you ever had a membership to something and then something better comes along and you transfer?  For example, Have you had a membership to Block Buster video where you go into the store to pick your movies; but Netflix comes out with a better service where they deliver the movies that you pick online straight to your door?  We have all traded teams, memberships our minds to next big thing.  Well I am here to tell you to switch again!  The biggest thing there is can provide all that you need and want beyond your wildest dreams.  This membership has no annual fees, you are never canceled unless you cancel.  Someone is always available to talk with you and help you.  There is even a manuscript for all your questions and concerns.  Don't be fooled with the lust of broken promises and foul gimmicks.  If your searching for the next big thing-start within yourself.

Everyone one of us have a heart!  A heart that God wants.  You have been suffering and going through the motion, its time to transfer your membership today!  The scripture tell us that, "For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false testimony, slander."  (Matt 15:19)  I was once guilty of my heart belonging to other things or people and not God. 

Telling others "God knows my heart" isn't an excuse to stay in your mess.  He knows our hearts but most importantly he wants it.  If you transfer your membership, you will gain peace that passive all understanding.  Over flowing joy and unmerited favor.  You will be blessed and favored as long as your walking with Christ.

In order to transfer your membership is quit simple.

First understand that we are all sinners.  Romans 3:10 proclaims, "As it is written, There is none righteous, no, not one." The Bible makes it clear that we have all sinned. We are all sinners in need of mercy and forgiveness from God (Titus 3:5-7). Because of our sin, we deserve eternal punishment (Matthew 25:46).  God will provide grace instead of judgment. It is a request for mercy instead of wrath.

Second, know that knowing what God has done to remedy our lost and sinful condition. God took on flesh and became a human being in the Person of Jesus Christ (John 1:1,14). Jesus taught us the truth about God and lived a perfectly righteous and sinless life (John 8:46; 2 Corinthians 5:21). Jesus then died on the cross in our place, taking the punishment that we deserve (Romans 5:8). Jesus rose from the dead to prove His victory over sin, death, and hell (Colossians 2:15; 1 Corinthians chapter 15). Because of all of this, we can have our sins forgiven and be promised an eternal home in Heaven - if we will just place our faith in Jesus Christ. All we have to do is believe that He died in our place and rose from the dead (Romans 10:9-10). We can be saved by grace alone, through faith alone, in Jesus Christ alone. Ephesians 2:8 declares, "For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith - and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God."

Finally, declare to God that you are relying on Jesus Christ as your Savior. There are no "magical" words that result in salvation. It is only faith in Jesus' death and resurrection that can save us. If you understand that you are a sinner and in need of salvation through Jesus Christ, say this prayer to God:

"God, I know that I am a sinner. I know that I deserve the consequences of my sin. However, I am trusting in Jesus Christ as my Savior. I believe that His death and resurrection provided for my forgiveness. I trust in Jesus and Jesus alone as my personal Lord and Savior. Thank you Lord, for saving me and forgiving me! Amen!"

Visit and join a bible base church and if you have not been baptize I strongly urge you to do so!   God bless you in your new membership.

The Complete Idiots Guide to Dysfunction

Every now and then I find something that I like written by others.  I want to share this with you and give credit where due.  Nichole Jeter you are awesome!  Thanks for letting me repost on my blog.

The Complete Idiots Guide to Dysfunction

1. Ignore the obvious
2. Defend all actions including the ones that are clearly wrong.
3. Listen Partly and Speak Often
4. Be defensive
5. Begin every sentence with an I
6. Trust a Liar.
7. Be A Victim
8. Ignore 3 Major senses Sight, Touch, and Hearing
9. Adapt an Attitude of Superiority
10. When given clear instructions ignore them
11. If there is a Bush by all means beat around it.
12. Procrastinate on important life changing issues
13. Listen to other people who have mastered most if not all the principles of dysfunction
14. Run and hide from overbearing people
15. Be courageous and mean to the ones who Love you Seek to hurt their feelings
16. Base relationships off of your emotions see number 1.
17. Blame everyone else for these wonderful habits and principles you have adapted.
18. Be superficial
19. Wear your sexuality as a badge of honor
20. Trade all No’s for Yes, Yes I can and Yes I will!!
21. Place value on all of your belongings
22. Keep baggage from your old relationships
23. Compare your current mate with old mates
24. Use sex for everything
25. Use drugs and alcohol to numb the senses that you do use.
26. Lie to avoid
27. Meet every challenge with a willingness to remain ignorant.
28. Create as many bad habits as possible.
29. Doubt everything

Now these are some of the sure fire principles to a happy resourceful and committed life of dysfunction. If you follow all if not some of these rules you will remain happily bound and confused and ultimately the devils chew toy. Yes trust in this and you will certainly be on a one way ticket to……………..Oh let me stop here these instructions are too much like right and seeing that you can’t seem to get pass number 10 this message will totally be ignored and void. ~Nichole Jeter

I'm Just Saying! (Abuse)

If you are in a abusive situation, GET OUT!  No one has the right to hit on you, disrespect, spit, kick, pull or beat on you.  Call the po po's and put that joker in jail!!!  Too many of our children are thinking it is the right thing to do in a relationship when their mate won't do what they want them to do.  IT IS NOT COOL TO BE A VICTIM!!!  GET OUT OF THAT SITUATION.  Don't let the situation take you out.  I'm Just Saying!

If you texting or calling your mate in the morning at 8 am, then again at 9, again at 10 and every hour afterward to find out what they're doing.  You got issues!  Have you heard of a thing called TRUST?!  Try it sometimes before you get your feelings hurt!  I'm Just Saying!

If you calling someone out of their name IT IS ABUSE! 
If you control what a person wear, how they wear their hair or even if they can not do the things they like and love, IT IS ABUSE!!

If you pick them apart from top to bottom or talking about their weight, body, face, whatever, if it hurts them on purpose, IT IS ABUSE!!

If you are embarrassing them in public whether its out and about or around family and friends, IT IS ABUSE!!

 If you are forcing yourself on them sexually or having them do things they normally wouldn't or want to do guess what?  IT IS ABUSE.

If you are messing with their head to make them think they are crazy and they are not  IT IS ABUSE!!


If you are constantly making your partner feel that they can't do anything right, IT IS ABUSE!!!

I know its not always easy to walk away but trust me IT IS when your life is in danger.  PLEASE leave the moment you see signs of abuse.  Call the police the moment his/her hand or object touches you.

I would tell what I would do but this is the internet, I'm Just Saying!  It would involve a lot of laxatives, and glue.  It would be so hard for him to abuse me when I whipping his butt while he is glued to the toilet.  I'm Just Saying!!!  A man have only 0 times to hit me and that will be the last time he EVER thought about abusing me!!  Forealdoh.

If its one thing I hate is a man who try to scare his woman into loving him!  YOU ARE NOT A MAN!!!  Real men love the woman he is with.  He treats her with the utmost respect.  He cherishes her and she cherishes him with acts of love, kindness, and trust.  Yes you will get angry at one another, Yes you will dislike them at times.  You do not have the right to control that person by any abuse, whether its emotional, verbal or physical.

If you feel like you have an issue of abuse, domestic violence I urge to get out NOW!  If you are being abuse and have children the abuse will be towards the kids sooner or later. Call a shelter or a hotline in your area for direction.
I'm Just Saying!!!!!  Be Bless and Please be safe!