I'm Just Saying! (To vote or not to vote)

Listen up people!  Things are rough for a lot of people and good for the rich.  I have never seen a time when the President of the United States doesn't have respect from the people.  For example, no matter how jacked up the Bush's were they were still respected because they were Presidents.  Now that there is a Black President people seem to forget that HE INHERITED THE MESS LEFT FROM GEORGE W. BUSH!!!!!  Plain and simple.  

This year election has been a knock out drag out and they want to convince us to go independent, democrat and republican.  I am for the right person who will make it better on those on the lower tadpole.  I think we the people should line up and make these self righteous politicians live in LA's Skid Row, or anyone's homeless shelter across America!  Let them work for low wages and no health care.  Let's send their love ones to war and keep them over there for years to come.  

I don't trust any of these snakes in office because NOT ONE OF THEM HAD KIND WORDS FOR OUR PRESIDENT!!!!  BITE ME!!!  I wish I would vote for a republican and a tea party member just because you hate President Obama!!  We stood behind Reagan, Bush, Nixon, Bush even when most Presidents allowed lynching as an entertainment back in the days!  So people remember that when you get out to vote today!  President Obama DID NOT JACKED THIS COUNTRY UP.......A REPUBLICAN DID!  I'm Just Saying!!!!!

Disclaimer:  This is the views of ME so if you don't like it.....OH WELL!  If I have to listen to every TV, radio commercial or read it online about how much you dislike Obama than you can stand to read my thoughts.  Otherwise keep it moving because I couldn't care less!  

If you don't vote....don't complain!  If you vote.....make the right choice! 

Sincerely,

I'm Just Saying! (A Girl vs. A Woman)

I'm Just Saying!  (A Girl vs. A Woman)

This is for all the young girls who cuss out their man, aggressively thinks its cute to step in a man's role.  You know the ones they try to come between a man and his family.

A woman understands her man.  She knows when to push the right buttons and when to just leave it and him alone.  A little girl argues and cusses her man out as if God put you as the head.

A woman knows how to handle herself.  She can work, take care of the kids, manage her money and still have time for her man and her self.  A little girl waits for someone to do it all for her.  She thinks she should have it all right now.

A woman knows how to appreciate her man, his mother and father, while not losing herself or feeling threatened in her position.  A little girl wants to remove his mother, and anybody close to her man even if it hurts him.

A woman doesn't mind taking advice or constructive criticism from anyone because she knows the older they are the better the wisdom and knowledge.  A little girl walks around with an arrogant attitude that she knows it all and can't tell nothing.

A little girl has no respect for herself, her kids or her man when she tries to walk in his shoes.  A woman will show respect just by doing the job without complaining and leaning on others in her time of need.

A little girl treats her man like she has bigger balls than him.  A woman will take care of her man, his balls and all and still maintain her Queen status.

The difference between a woman and little girl is the ability to listen.  The ability to be taught how to grow into a good woman so a good man can treat her like the queen she is.  A little girl get what's dealt by her attitude, her demeanor and her mentality.  Be open to a change so you can grow into a beautiful woman.  Any girl can spread herself and get pregnant but a woman knows how to make parenting and being a woman work for her as a lady.  I'm Just Saying!

Sincerely,

I'm Just Saying! (Dumb Young Mothers) A MUST READ

There is nothing wrong with being young.  There is something wrong when you are young with an serious attitude; and NO ONE can tell you any thing, even when you are dead wrong.  So I am dedicating this segment of I'm Just Saying to those retards! What?  I'm Just Saying!!!!

To the young mother with a sick baby who brings the child outside in the cold with NO coat, NOTHING to cover the baby up with and NOTHING on their head......you need to be stuffed in a freezer without those same items that the baby did not have on.  Maybe you will know how it feels to freeze and be sick throwing up all over yourself.  That right there?!........ makes me wanna lock you in a one and throw away the key!  I'm Just Saying!!!  

If you are a father with no job, no car, living with someone else, how you dare you open your mouth and say people need to mind their business.......YOU DON'T HAVE ANY BUSINESS TO SPEAK OF!  You can't even buy a vowel so stop talking.  No one is listening....not even your parents!  I'm Just Saying!

Alright I understand you trying to make money with your first job but sistah girl, STOP SMACKING ALL IN THE MIC WHEN TAKING MY ORDER FO I SMACK WHAT CHA SMACKING ON DOWN YOUR STOMACH AND MAKE IT COME OUT YOUR REAR!!!!  I'M JUST SAYING!  Get some training on how to be a lady!!

If you sent your child to visit family or friends and the child gets sick and you act like that's an inconvenience to you; all the mothers, grandmothers, aunties and women all over the world need to line up and whoop your tail until you understand that when you gave birth, your rights to you have vanished!  Get over yourself....as a facebook friend of mine say......that is called some straight trifling ghettoish, let me kick her butt foolishness there!   I'm Just Saying!

If you telling someone how to spend their money on your child who is their grandchild, SMACK YOURSELF before they do.  You are out of line for even thinking you have ANY power or control like that!  Betta leave that "oh wee" alone for that "oh wee" became a ouch!  I'm Just Saying!

If you think that you can keep your child from their other family, think again!  If the other parent get rights (which they should), they WILL get visitation dumm dumm!  Stop barking because your bite is no better than the toothless baby you birthed.  I'm Just Saying!

If the father's mother threw you a baby shower and NOT ONE of your family or friends showed up, that is a sign you have issues!!!  Maybe the person giving the shower should have taken notes!!!  (SO NOTED!!!)  I'm Just Saying!

So here's a tip:
Maybe if you get a clue on how to communicate or listen you may become a good mother. Mothers before you who have raised at least one child can be a lot of help.  If you're that grown and know it all stop asking for things that you should already be doing.  I'm Just Saying!  

This is your girl Forealdoh wishing you a bless weekend!

Disclaimer:

I'm Just Saying! is not intended to hurt or bash anyone.  If you are offended please know that this isn't the blog for you and to keep it moving.  If you offended, check yourself, that's the truth in your heart trying to kick your butt because you fall into one of the "I'm Just Saying topic above.  Don't hate the writer........hate the reader.  I'm Just Saying!

Sincerely,

Making Excuses is No Excuse!

When it comes to sexuality people are more open to the thought of being gay verses being straight.  What one person does is not my concern but when you say I am hating or bashing gays because I  AM A Soldier for God's Kingdom, I take a stand.

Here's question that I want to put out there......

Why is it when we ask someone about God and his bible, people respond with, "How do you know it was God?"  "MAN wrote the bible."  We are quick to dismiss the Word of God but believe MAN on their word.  Something is wrong with this picture.  What can "man" do for me that God can't do?  God say ALL power is in His hand.  What power does man hold?  If God isn't saying that homosexuality is a sin, just like murdering, lying, stealing there is no respect of person, why are we making excuses for the sin?

Maura Kelly wrote, "Although I can be a little on the prudish side, I try to be open about other people's sexuality, and I've tried in the past — and will continue to try — to keep an open mind about trying new things. Because, as I've realized, you never know what the hell you're going to like until you try it" 

UMMM.........NO.............Sorry Maura, trying something that will get me into hell is not worth the effort.  Will you try murder to see if you like it?

Stop making excuses for the sin you live in.  Plain and simple people.  Many will be deceive by the actions of others because society tells us, "its normal".  That is why we need to be in the Word of God and living for Him.  Hell is not the place for you if you don't do heat, bugs, bad smells, being torture and having no peace.  

If you don't believe in hell or God you will surely find out.  All knees will bow before God gay, straight, bi, murderers, unbelievers, believers, adulterers, ALL!  Are you ready to stand before God with your excuses on what you done?

Sincerely,

I'm Just Saying! (Freedom of Speech)

I was watching the Today show when the segment of Maria Clair blog and writer Maura Kelly talked about "people being fat."  I was reading the online article she wrote and I quote, "So anyway, yes, I think I'd be grossed out if I had to watch two characters with rolls and rolls of fat kissing each other ... because I'd be grossed out if I had to watch them doing anything. To be brutally honest, even in real life, I find it aesthetically displeasing to watch a very, very fat person simply walk across a room — just like I'd find it distressing if I saw a very drunk person stumbling across a bar or a heroine addict slumping in a chair." unquote.  

Here is my opinion: 

She has a right to say how she feels.  Would have I written something like that.....I don't know!  I can say this I don't think the people reading her article saw the bottom the line of her story.  She isn't saying something that most of  have not thought about.  She just put hers out there for the world to see.  I personally don't watch the Mike & Molly not because of weight but because it doesn't interest me.  Americans have issues with being skinny!  Let's face it.  As you age, your body change so either you will work at it or you won't.  Who are we to criticize a person for their decision to be skinny or fat?  Who are we to beat up on someone for their opinion?

One of our rights is "Freedom of Speech".  One should be able to share their thoughts without a media back lash, regardless.  What amazes me is the television and radio media.....they are like flesh eating bacterias on celebrities.  They are allowed to invade their privacy, be in their business and most important report on their children as well over exaggerate a story.  Why aren't we mad about that?  Why do we allow them to degrade others and allow this writer, who is no different than other media outlet, to be racked over the coals?  It isn't fair!  Some of the comments on her blog were outrageous.  

As a "black woman" my skin was born with a layer of thickness.  As much as my culture suffered at the hands of other human beings, the media can't stand the thought of discussing it.  Let alone reporting on it!  The reason why people don't get anger with the media for reporting on people like, less say Charlie Sheen, is because they are keeping nosy people, like those who attack Maura's article, in the loop.  Why should this writer be fired?  Until we as a whole stop allowing others to dictate what is "real", what is "normal" and what "we" should say and feel I say BACK OFF!  I'm Just Saying!

Sincerely,

Breaking the Curse....

An atheist was taking a walk through the woods "What majestic trees! What powerful rivers! What beautiful animals!" he said to himself. As he continued walking alongside the river he heard a rustling in the bushes. Turning to look, he saw a 7 foot grizzly charging towards him.

He ran as fast as he could up the path. Looking over his shoulder he saw that the bear was closing in on him. His heart was pumping frantically and he tried to run even faster.

He tripped and fell on the ground. He rolled over to pick himself up but saw the bear raising his paw to take a swipe at him. At that instant the atheist cried out: "Oh my God..."

Time stopped.

The bear froze.

The forest was silent.

It was then that a bright light shone down upon the man and a voice came out of the sky saying: "You deny my existence for all of these years, teach others I don't exist, and even credit creation to a cosmic accident. Do you expect me to help you out of this predicament? Am I to count you as a believer?"

The atheist looked directly into the light, "It would be hypocritical of me to suddenly ask you to treat me as a Christian now, but perhaps, could you make the bear a Christian?"

"Very well," said the voice.

The light went out.

And the sounds of the forest resumed.

Then the bear lowered his paw, bowed his head and spoke: "Lord, bless this food which I am about to receive and for which I am truly thankful. Amen." 

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That was sent to me in an e-mail and I thought, "What a way to make a point!"  We deny the very things that is for our good and accept those that are not.  We are the best of God and how do we thank him....by rejecting him?  That shouldn't be acceptable.  He sends people and gives many warnings to us when he's trying to get our attention.  We just turn away until we are in need.  Be careful what you ask of God because it may be the opposite of what you thought the outcome would be.  Anything that is not of God is a curse upon your life.  Sin is a curse.  Sin had no place with God.  What is a curse?  A curse (also called execration) is any expressed wish that some form of adversity or unhappiness that will befall another person or persons. Anger is a curse, a lying spirit is a curse, sexual immortality is a curse.  If its not of God its a curse.  Sin is a curse, if it wasn't God wouldn't have told Adam and Eve in Genesis 3:17  

To Adam he said, "Because you listened to your wife and ate from the tree about which I commanded you, 'You must not eat of it,'

       "Cursed is the ground because of you;
       through painful toil you will eat of it
       all the days of your life.

The Word of God says that a curse without a cause can not settle on a righteous person.  Sin opens the door (primarily disobedience) for a curse to settle on a person.  No matter the sin, and no matter the type of curse, we need to ask the Lord to take it and break it from us.  Then we are appropriating and applying what Jesus did for us by going to the cross and becoming a curse for us. Ask God to come into your life and remove the curse that is holding you back.  Are you ready to break the curse and allow God into your life?

Heavenly Father I come to You no in the Name of of my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.  Holy Spirit I ask You to quicken me and lead me in prayers.  Lord, I believe that on the cross You took upon Yourself every curse that could and would over come against me.  I as that You destroy every curse that is on me a this time, on my children, my grandchildren and those closest to me at this time.  I ask You to destroy those curses now in the Name of Jesus according to John 14:14.  To God be the Glory. Amen! 

Sincerely,

I'm Just Saying! (Money)

Why are you crying "broke" but just brought you a pair of $200 shoes and your child support payment is 2 month behind?  

Why are you on some quick rich scheme trying to sell no good used mp3 players will not make you rich.  Will get you beat up but will not make you rich.

You driving a 1998 cutlass with spinning wheels and a nice sound system, draped in "Gold 4 Ya Mouf" jewelry but can't read and write nor can you talk. 

You can go to the club and party hardy spending big bucks on friends but can't put a dollar in the offering plate at church.

You rather spend money on clothes than to take your trifling behind to Laundromat to wash your clothes.

You will purchase your tobacco products instead of purchasing life insurance.

You spend your paycheck two weeks before you receive it because you blew your last pay check trying to impress your new "boo".

You will take money from your kids piggy bank for gas because you gave your money to that no good man you want to keep around.

You spent $5000 on a gold grill for your ride but won't spend $100 on your kids.

Wake up people!!!  We need to start making better decisions with our money!  Look nice, ride nice and buy things at a moderate rate.  If you don't have a job, don't blow your money.  If you don't have skills to better budget your money, get some!  If you have a mate who is draining you dry, lose them!  You can do bad all by yourself.  If you robbing Peter to pay Paul you are in a crisis!  Make a choice to get your financial matter in order.  Like the saying goes, "Make money, don't let the money make you!"  I'm Just Saying!

I'm Just Saying Disclaimer:  This is the opinion of the writer.  The topics are not designed to hurt, bring pain but to deliver another way of thinking that is designed to help build a person up.  Keep in my mind that I write what I experience from my culture!  If you find that my writing offend you, this isn't the blog for you.  Keep it moving!  I'm Just Saying!  
 

Sincerely,